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		<title>Comment on Who Said Marriage Should Be Work? by Dianna L Hazlewood</title>
		<link>http://singledadlife.com/2009/10/09/marriage-work/comment-page-1/#comment-8872</link>
		<dc:creator>Dianna L Hazlewood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:49:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My heart goes out to you....I was in a brainwash abuse situation, for 20 years, got out 4 years ago, the divorce laws should definely be changed, not only changed, but its almost crimanal to have gone throu so much,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My heart goes out to you&#8230;.I was in a brainwash abuse situation, for 20 years, got out 4 years ago, the divorce laws should definely be changed, not only changed, but its almost crimanal to have gone throu so much,</p>
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		<title>Comment on Vision &amp; Motivaton by Solar Wind Monitoring</title>
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		<dc:creator>Solar Wind Monitoring</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 08:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Seriously...&lt;/strong&gt;

This is the maximum post....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Seriously&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>This is the maximum post&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Haunted by ExSex by ali</title>
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		<dc:creator>ali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 15:49:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>very bad</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>very bad</p>
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		<title>Comment on It&#8217;s Too Easy To Wallow In Loneliness by David</title>
		<link>http://singledadlife.com/2009/08/28/easy-wallow-loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-8853</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Dec 2011 04:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, 
I have not divorced or anything but it scares me to think about losing my little ones when me and the wife fight. I feel for you all, very much.  I dont have any friends, just my family and if I lost them, I would be without anyone! I also live in a foreign country. 
Finding friends can be hard too. Join a club? But it takes time to build up connections enough to become friends with those members. Then, you have to worry about the type of people you are bringing into your life and the lives of your children (who you hopefully see on the weekend at least). 
I have been lonely before, in University. I was away from my family and friends and had to meet people through drugs to be social. One night, I was so lonely, I called my answering machine to listen to the operator. (sad). (sad),(sad). I had no car, no money and no street cred.
I think the hardest part was trying to ask new people to hang out and feeling embarrassed that I did not have other friends to present the first time we did go out. How can you make new friends if you don’t have any old ones? 
I joined Karate...no luck with friends from there. Found a girl (my wife)... and made friends with her friends. I have to point out however that any of my own friends I made during this time were chased away by my wife (boys and especially girls). 
Needless to say, I returned to my home city whenever I could, just to feel like I people cared about me. I guess I got through it by 
	Strengthening old ties (family, friends, etc)
	Compromising my integrity for loose friendships (something I cannot do now)
	Exercising (made hard for a year when I hurt my elbow and knee at the same time)
Take the opportunity to better yourself through education, finances, life goals, etc. (without kids, this will be easier to do)
	My wife (not available in divorce situation)
I guess the thing to remember is, the situation may be unwanted, but we are not. There are others out there going through the same thing and people in the world who need you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey,<br />
I have not divorced or anything but it scares me to think about losing my little ones when me and the wife fight. I feel for you all, very much.  I dont have any friends, just my family and if I lost them, I would be without anyone! I also live in a foreign country.<br />
Finding friends can be hard too. Join a club? But it takes time to build up connections enough to become friends with those members. Then, you have to worry about the type of people you are bringing into your life and the lives of your children (who you hopefully see on the weekend at least).<br />
I have been lonely before, in University. I was away from my family and friends and had to meet people through drugs to be social. One night, I was so lonely, I called my answering machine to listen to the operator. (sad). (sad),(sad). I had no car, no money and no street cred.<br />
I think the hardest part was trying to ask new people to hang out and feeling embarrassed that I did not have other friends to present the first time we did go out. How can you make new friends if you don’t have any old ones?<br />
I joined Karate&#8230;no luck with friends from there. Found a girl (my wife)&#8230; and made friends with her friends. I have to point out however that any of my own friends I made during this time were chased away by my wife (boys and especially girls).<br />
Needless to say, I returned to my home city whenever I could, just to feel like I people cared about me. I guess I got through it by<br />
	Strengthening old ties (family, friends, etc)<br />
	Compromising my integrity for loose friendships (something I cannot do now)<br />
	Exercising (made hard for a year when I hurt my elbow and knee at the same time)<br />
Take the opportunity to better yourself through education, finances, life goals, etc. (without kids, this will be easier to do)<br />
	My wife (not available in divorce situation)<br />
I guess the thing to remember is, the situation may be unwanted, but we are not. There are others out there going through the same thing and people in the world who need you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Haunted by ExSex by cam</title>
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		<dc:creator>cam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 07:16:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Peter, thankfully I decided to *finally* break the incessant conversation with my carpet mites.  Daylight is good.  But I still miss him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Peter, thankfully I decided to *finally* break the incessant conversation with my carpet mites.  Daylight is good.  But I still miss him.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Good Men Step In To Become Dads by cam</title>
		<link>http://singledadlife.com/2010/05/17/good-men-step-dads/comment-page-1/#comment-8851</link>
		<dc:creator>cam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 06:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Peter, beautiful.  Thank you from every hopeful mom out there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Peter, beautiful.  Thank you from every hopeful mom out there.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My Ex-Wife Displays Contempt For Rulings On Visitation &#8211; What can I do? by Here2stay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Here2stay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 22:26:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My husbands exwife refuses to let there children spend the wknd with him bc of me the wife ive done nothin wrong she just dont like me but now he is holding her in contempt she got mad got her sister involved and they made threats against me so now the police is involved i wish the ex&#039;s would learn how to be parents and think about the children and not the way they feel about the other parent or step parent they are only hurting the children</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My husbands exwife refuses to let there children spend the wknd with him bc of me the wife ive done nothin wrong she just dont like me but now he is holding her in contempt she got mad got her sister involved and they made threats against me so now the police is involved i wish the ex&#8217;s would learn how to be parents and think about the children and not the way they feel about the other parent or step parent they are only hurting the children</p>
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		<title>Comment on 5 Key Reasons For Conflict In A Marriage by Memory Foam Mattress Reviews</title>
		<link>http://singledadlife.com/2009/10/15/5-key-reasons-conflict-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-8818</link>
		<dc:creator>Memory Foam Mattress Reviews</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 09:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on What Single Dads Can Learn From Coach John Wooden by Vicente San Martin Jr</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vicente San Martin Jr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 09:31:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I  need some  help  right  now    i am  a  single  dad  but  i am  face with something  that   if  i  do  any thing  i could  go  to  jail   and it  is  something  that i feel  my  ex wife   is  trying to set up  for it  to  happen   i  need some help   any  one   email me  at  chentesanmartin@yahoo.com     thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I  need some  help  right  now    i am  a  single  dad  but  i am  face with something  that   if  i  do  any thing  i could  go  to  jail   and it  is  something  that i feel  my  ex wife   is  trying to set up  for it  to  happen   i  need some help   any  one   email me  at  <a href="mailto:chentesanmartin@yahoo.com">chentesanmartin@yahoo.com</a>     thank you</p>
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		<title>Comment on Does Anyone Really Make Money in Network Marketing? by Angus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 15:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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