Comments on: Haunted by ExSex http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/ Single dads making a difference Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:49:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: ali http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8854 ali Thu, 29 Dec 2011 15:49:42 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8854 very bad very bad

]]> By: cam http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8852 cam Sun, 13 Nov 2011 07:16:56 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8852 Peter, thankfully I decided to *finally* break the incessant conversation with my carpet mites. Daylight is good. But I still miss him. Peter, thankfully I decided to *finally* break the incessant conversation with my carpet mites. Daylight is good. But I still miss him.

]]> By: ARNEADER http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8623 ARNEADER Sat, 21 Aug 2010 22:31:57 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8623 That's called walking around with your drawers on top of your head. Been there done that got a T Shirt! What was so killing about it, I DID NOT know what was wrong with me. Eventually I had to LOL at myself when I discovered I'd had my mind BLOWN over great SEX! It was very difficult for the both of us. It took five years after a DIVORCE for the two of us to get over it. NO! You don't want that. You DO get over that. I've come to realize I can make ANY man a great lover. It's in me! Besides, I can't spend my entire life in bed. I have to go to work, need help with the kids etc. So I really want to "like" you more than anything and hope the feeling and everything else is mutual. That’s called walking around with your drawers on top of your head. Been there done that got a T Shirt! What was so killing about it, I DID NOT know what was wrong with me. Eventually I had to LOL at myself when I discovered I’d had my mind BLOWN over great SEX! It was very difficult for the both of us. It took five years after a DIVORCE for the two of us to get over it. NO! You don’t want that. You DO get over that. I’ve come to realize I can make ANY man a great lover. It’s in me! Besides, I can’t spend my entire life in bed. I have to go to work, need help with the kids etc. So I really want to “like” you more than anything and hope the feeling and everything else is mutual.

]]> By: ARNEADER http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8622 ARNEADER Sat, 21 Aug 2010 22:18:55 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8622 I hate to admit how L.O.N.G. it took me to learn but...the answer to your question is quite simple. Look forward not backwards. If it didn't work the first time, it won't work the second time for the very same reasons. Besides, there's a world out there and you need to spend each and everyday trying to meet everyone. Lastly, great sex is NOT a reason to be with a person. The thrill does leave and you want to make sure there is MORE substance to the "person" and relationship. I hate to admit how L.O.N.G. it took me to learn but…the answer to your question is quite simple. Look forward not backwards. If it didn’t work the first time, it won’t work the second time for the very same reasons. Besides, there’s a world out there and you need to spend each and everyday trying to meet everyone. Lastly, great sex is NOT a reason to be with a person. The thrill does leave and you want to make sure there is MORE substance to the “person” and relationship.

]]> By: Caligula http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8621 Caligula Mon, 16 Aug 2010 03:18:07 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8621 Never try to change who you are for the sake of another. Great sex might be rare, or it might be found with every new lover, but who you are is that which is truly unique. Go ahead, fuck your ex's brains out if you get the chance. Just don't compromise yourself to do it - you'll only have fucked yourself if you do. Never try to change who you are for the sake of another. Great sex might be rare, or it might be found with every new lover, but who you are is that which is truly unique. Go ahead, fuck your ex’s brains out if you get the chance. Just don’t compromise yourself to do it – you’ll only have fucked yourself if you do.

]]> By: barryk http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8608 barryk Sat, 31 Jul 2010 13:40:25 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8608 Wow Tiffany. What an awesome raw, and honest response! Thank you so much for sharing this insight. Seems like you totally get the place Peter is coming from. A pleasure having you stop by the neighborhood! Wow Tiffany. What an awesome raw, and honest response! Thank you so much for sharing this insight. Seems like you totally get the place Peter is coming from.

A pleasure having you stop by the neighborhood!

]]> By: Tiffany Buczek http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8607 Tiffany Buczek Sat, 31 Jul 2010 06:59:41 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8607 I recently ended things with a man who I had amazing sexual chemistry with. One should never underestimate the power of the physical connection. I still physically crave this man like I would a drug and not a day goes by that I don't think of him. I have read so many articles downplaying sexual chemistry between two people, saying it is superficial to base a relationship on it. Well, the married couples I know who didn't have that mind-blowing chemistry may be the best of friends, but their sex life is...tepid to say the least. Do I want that? Absolutely not. I'll take the mind-blowing sex and call my girlfriends when I want to chat, thank you very much. Find someone else, people flippantly say. There are plenty of fish in the sea...trust me when I say, there aren't. I have only had this kind of connection once before-20 yrs ago. It does not happen often, nor does it happen with just anyone. Good sex with another person is possible of course, but what we're talking about here is in a class all by itself. It's an anything goes, purely sublime, animalistic raw hunger and sexual connection with another person. I'll take that over shared political and social values any day of the week. I recently ended things with a man who I had amazing sexual chemistry with. One should never underestimate the power of the physical connection. I still physically crave this man like I would a drug and not a day goes by that I don’t think of him. I have read so many articles downplaying sexual chemistry between two people, saying it is superficial to base a relationship on it. Well, the married couples I know who didn’t have that mind-blowing chemistry may be the best of friends, but their sex life is…tepid to say the least. Do I want that? Absolutely not. I’ll take the mind-blowing sex and call my girlfriends when I want to chat, thank you very much. Find someone else, people flippantly say. There are plenty of fish in the sea…trust me when I say, there aren’t. I have only had this kind of connection once before-20 yrs ago. It does not happen often, nor does it happen with just anyone. Good sex with another person is possible of course, but what we’re talking about here is in a class all by itself. It’s an anything goes, purely sublime, animalistic raw hunger and sexual connection with another person. I’ll take that over shared political and social values any day of the week.

]]> By: barryk http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8601 barryk Tue, 20 Jul 2010 13:49:55 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8601 Hey Paul, if the two of you are still sleeping together maybe becoming "ex's should be reconsidered. Just a thought ;) Hey Paul, if the two of you are still sleeping together maybe becoming “ex’s should be reconsidered. Just a thought ;)

]]> By: Paul G http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8595 Paul G Thu, 15 Jul 2010 22:47:06 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8595 But is it okay to sleep with her while separated, or does it make it more complicated? I don't call her my ex, yet. But is it okay to sleep with her while separated, or does it make it more complicated? I don’t call her my ex, yet.

]]> By: may http://singledadlife.com/2010/03/03/haunted-exsex/comment-page-1/#comment-8546 may Wed, 02 Jun 2010 14:16:37 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=3443#comment-8546 Just try something different,(opposite than your ex) with an OPEN heart, forget about her...you might be missing out a new and better world.. good luck. Just try something different,(opposite than your ex) with an OPEN heart, forget about her…you might be missing out a new and better world.. good luck.

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