Michael Vick and Teachable Moments for Parents
July 29, 2009 by barryk
Filed under Articles About Youth Sports, SDL Blog
How do you feel about Michael Vick being released from prison and most likely playing in the NFL? To some, the mere mention of this brings disgust due to his abhorrent involvement in dog fighting.
I am not going to tell you how you should feel about Michael Vick, or your thoughts on dog fighting.
The bigger question?
How can we use this situation, and others like it, as one of those “teachable moments” between parents and their kids?
These situations provide a terrific opportunity to have a great discussion with your kids about current events, without sounding like a lecture.
How? Ask Questions.
- What do you think about dog fighting?
- What do you think about the person who gets involved in this activity?
- Would you want to be friends with someone who does this?
- Should Michael Vick be given a second chance now that he has served his time in prison?
- What do you think he could do to help people feel differently about him?
I’m sure you can think of many others, but you get the point.
Can you see how this would engage your child to think and discuss instead of tuning you out with another eye roll?
What is your take on this? Do you have better questions? How do you handle these types of moments?
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I think this is a great opportunity to teach from. Well said.
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I’ve used this as a way to teach my kids how people judge you, even after you have paid your debt to society. The man made a mistake & spent 2 years in jail. We don’t have to be friends with him, just let me try to live his life.
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Yes, Vick deserves a second chance. Anyone who pays his debt to society deserves as much.
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I am sort of surprised by the other comments. I used this to teach my kids about how doing things that you know are wrong (like cruelty to animals) can ruin a great career even if you are really good at your job.
I think the NFL made an error letting Vick back in. He wasn’t committing a crime out of desperation, he already had millions of dollars. I think he deserves to be banned. I am a huge NFL fan and I am disappointed in the decision largely because I think it sets a terrible example for children.
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You made a valid point Sarah. Thanks!
great discussion. lots of our families are using this as a teachable moment. we will be sure to share this with them. Keep up the good work.
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