Comments on: No Excuse Not To Be Involved http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/ Single dads making a difference Fri, 03 Feb 2012 15:49:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Sasha http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7656 Sasha Tue, 07 Jul 2009 03:33:21 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7656 This is not about personal choices. There are bad dads as there are bad moms. I have my opinion about all this, but will keep it to myself. All I want to say is that Canadian Family Law does not care about children and their well being. The system is bias and corrupted and it's purposely doing this to young Canadians while our PM and minister of Justice know about all researches and importance of fathers in children's lives, but do NOTHING to change this. If you know any father that is experiencing Canadian Family " LAW" (what a farce) please go to www.notalldadsaredeadbeats.com and help us help Canadian children get all the love that they can possible get. Thank you. This is not about personal choices. There are bad dads as there are bad moms. I have my opinion about all this, but will keep it to myself. All I want to say is that Canadian Family Law does not care about children and their well being. The system is bias and corrupted and it’s purposely doing this to young Canadians while our PM and minister of Justice know about all researches and importance of fathers in children’s lives, but do NOTHING to change this. If you know any father that is experiencing Canadian Family ” LAW” (what a farce) please go to http://www.notalldadsaredeadbeats.com and help us help Canadian children get all the love that they can possible get. Thank you.

]]> By: Terri http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7569 Terri Sun, 05 Jul 2009 05:06:56 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7569 Very true on the memories part. Even though the "FATHER" was around and knew when his Son's birthday was. HE ALWAYS had an excuse WHY he wasn't going to be there. Of course I bit my tongue cause of my Son. TODAY well its hard for me to bite it NOW that my son is a MAN. We don't keep anything from one another. Including feelings about certain people. Your right there is NO EXCUSE but regardless he wasn't there. .-= Terri´s last blog ..<a href="http://twitter.com/BisbalsBeauty/statuses/2462755093" rel="nofollow">BisbalsBeauty: Spending time with my Son tonight. Working this weekend. SENDING WELL WISHES TO ALL this holiday.</a> =-. Very true on the memories part. Even though the “FATHER” was around and knew when his Son’s birthday was. HE ALWAYS had an excuse WHY he wasn’t going to be there. Of course I bit my tongue cause of my Son. TODAY well its hard for me to bite it NOW that my son is a MAN. We don’t keep anything from one another. Including feelings about certain people. Your right there is NO EXCUSE but regardless he wasn’t there.
.-= Terri´s last blog ..BisbalsBeauty: Spending time with my Son tonight. Working this weekend. SENDING WELL WISHES TO ALL this holiday. =-.

]]> By: barryk http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7490 barryk Sat, 04 Jul 2009 04:16:41 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7490 Terri, All I can say is, your son has every right to be angry. In the long run, it is your ex's loss for not sharing in the moments of your sons life. As tough as it was for you, the two of you share memories your ex will never have. He has no excuse. Terri,

All I can say is, your son has every right to be angry. In the long run, it is your ex’s loss for not sharing in the moments of your sons life. As tough as it was for you, the two of you share memories your ex will never have. He has no excuse.

]]> By: Terri http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7485 Terri Sat, 04 Jul 2009 01:00:53 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7485 Ok I can go SO MANY WAYS with this one. But I am going to stick with behaving myself here. Basicly I raised a Man. Why I had to do it on my own I have NO CLUE. Single parent (Female). My Son's "FATHER" had many chances to be with his child and chose to look the other way. Of his own accord? Did he have any other choice? I have no clue. Trust me I have asked those questions and got NO answers. My Son is now 18 SOON to be 19. He is now an adult and VERY MAD at that. I know there are GREAT fathers out there. I just know the one my son got STUCK with ISN'T one. .-= Terri´s last blog ..<a href="http://twitter.com/BisbalsBeauty/statuses/2399727678" rel="nofollow">BisbalsBeauty: Checking messages then going to bed. Back to work in the morning.</a> =-. Ok I can go SO MANY WAYS with this one. But I am going to stick with behaving myself here. Basicly I raised a Man. Why I had to do it on my own I have NO CLUE. Single parent (Female). My Son’s “FATHER” had many chances to be with his child and chose to look the other way. Of his own accord? Did he have any other choice? I have no clue. Trust me I have asked those questions and got NO answers. My Son is now 18 SOON to be 19. He is now an adult and VERY MAD at that. I know there are GREAT fathers out there. I just know the one my son got STUCK with ISN’T one.
.-= Terri´s last blog ..BisbalsBeauty: Checking messages then going to bed. Back to work in the morning. =-.

]]> By: dadshouse http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7410 dadshouse Fri, 03 Jul 2009 01:41:51 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7410 Kids need dads, I agree. I'm lucky that here in California, child custody was split 50/50 for me and my ex, and I think that's a pretty common thing. The courts like to do what's best for the children, and it seems they think having both parents stay involved is exactly what's best. .-= dadshouse´s last blog ..<a href="http://dadshouseblog.com/2009/07/02/relationship-test-who-picked-the-wedding-cake/" rel="nofollow">Relationship Test – Who Picked the Wedding Cake?</a> =-. Kids need dads, I agree. I’m lucky that here in California, child custody was split 50/50 for me and my ex, and I think that’s a pretty common thing. The courts like to do what’s best for the children, and it seems they think having both parents stay involved is exactly what’s best.
.-= dadshouse´s last blog ..Relationship Test – Who Picked the Wedding Cake? =-.

]]> By: barryk http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7310 barryk Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:11:20 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7310 With comments like yours, it should go a long way in reassuring them. Thanks! With comments like yours, it should go a long way in reassuring them. Thanks!

]]> By: Cathy http://singledadlife.com/2009/06/30/excuse-involved/comment-page-1/#comment-7299 Cathy Wed, 01 Jul 2009 14:02:07 +0000 http://singledadlife.com/?p=1632#comment-7299 There are fathers out there who have no idea what a positive impact their presence has on their children's lives. They feel thrown away instead of needed. If they only new how needed they were it would be easy to muster up the courage their children deserve. .-= Cathy´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.adivorcedwoman.com/2009/07/alimonyshould-he-pay-if-he-trades-in-the-old-model-after-30-or-40-years-of-marriage.html" rel="nofollow">Alimony...Should he Pay if he Trades in the Old Model After 30 or 40 Years of Marriage?</a> =-. There are fathers out there who have no idea what a positive impact their presence has on their children’s lives.

They feel thrown away instead of needed. If they only new how needed they were it would be easy to muster up the courage their children deserve.
.-= Cathy´s last blog ..Alimony…Should he Pay if he Trades in the Old Model After 30 or 40 Years of Marriage? =-.

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